I don't really like shopping. I'd much rather spend free time in the yard or with yarn! I also don't watch tv so I have inoculated myself against the way that tv makes you think you want things. I really didn't notice how powerful this force was until I stopped watching. I'm not saying people should stop watching tv, I didn't give it up for any "moral" reason. It was a result of circumstances surrounding our move to this house. Then I realized I didn't miss it and didn't care to go back to watching. My point is that (by accident) I discovered that tv doesn't just impact the consumerism of children and teens. It affects the consumerism of educated, conservation minded, responsible adults who know better (like me!). One other thing that insulates me against the forces that encourage consumption is that I don't even do my own grocery shopping. (How lucky is that! Thanks to the Aunt!!!) I think once you are out there spending for necessary things, it is so much easier to keep spending for the less necessary and the unnecessary!
Maybe all the above sounds sanctimonious or preachy. I don't mean it to be. I have just noticed that buying is one of those things that if you force yourself to stop for awhile and if you spend time thinking about it, you notice that you were not buying because you needed the things. It is an area where it is interesting to examine unexamined behavior. Another interesting thing is that when I mentioned The Compact to friends, their reaction was completely negative. Now, I wasn't suggesting that any of us do it. I just brought up the article and the idea of it. I was unprepared for the ferocity of the response. There was no discussion that ensued, only negative comments about craziness and extremism. An idea so threatening that we couldn't even discuss it???? Hmmmm....
All of the above musing has now gotten me way off track! What I initially was going to blog about is:
- I am going shopping (gasp!) for a NEW dress and shoes for a work Christmas party (double gasp!!). My only "dress up" party dress and shoes are from my reunion in 2000. Niece S is going with me to make it more bearable!
- The NEW fence is going up in the far corner of the backyard! It is being put in by a neighbor who had house repairs going on for most of the years we have lived here. The fence was taken down by El Esposo this summer and we put up a temporary plastic barrier to keep the dogs in. I was sort of resigned to having the plastic barrier and the fence down for at least a year. But no! Pictures will follow when the fence is done. And it is going up so fast that EE is thinking about having the same worker fix another section of falling-down fence.
- I have a NEW office!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am now project director of a federal grant as half of my job starting in January and I asked to have an office so I could keep that work separate from my teaching work. The new office is in the library, closer to the rest of the folks working on this and other grants. I think it is the best office in the whole building and I can't understand why it has been empty until now (library opened in 2006). I never had complaints about my other office. Teachers make do with desks from the 60s and 70s and spaces that were not designed for new technology. (I have a powerstrip with cords everywhere since my teaching office only has two easily accessible outlets, for example). But now that I have a NEW office--not only new to me, but never been used and with a modern ergonomic desk and enough outlets--I am ecstatic!!!! It faces south to catch the sun, it is in the library, and it has its own door to the outside!!!!!!

What they don't know is that I don't plan to give this up when the project is over in 2015! The person who gave me the office will be retired by then, the building where my teaching office is located will be being remodeled, and I predict no one will think about evicting me!
7 comments:
Kelly, you are unique:) New dress and new shoes scare you but this new office "priceless". Guess that is why I love you, Aunt Betty
Tell me about it! My "office" is in an abandoned classroom AND I share it with 5 other people! Also, you may not know this, but a few years ago mom did The Compact, committing to not buy anything for a year. Easily the most expensive year of MY life, by the way. "oh Mia, there's a two for one sale on a garden cart I want, you go get one and give me the free one." And "I need to paint the dining room...oh you only have one gallon of the color I like left over from your hallway? Well you'll need to pick up another can, I'm sure I'll need two.". It went like that for twelve months!
When I first saw your post, I thought the furniture in your new office was bright red....then I realized it's just from the camera phone!
I'm new to your blog, so I don't know how you arranged the no-grocery-shopping but I'm jealous! (Not a fan of grocery shopping - or of other shopping for that matter.)
I've heard of Buy Nothing for a day, and of buy local or local food but never of buying nothing for a year. Have to go read about it more!!
Sue
Hey Kelly we are a lot alike. We dropped off the TV habit a long time ago and I totally agree with your thoughts on the effect of that. We rent a few shows we like from Netflix which is just enough variety. You made me go "Oh shoot!" because I also have to buy a posh frock for a party next week, and keep forgetting - To me an hour in the shops is a whole bunch of weeds that didn't get yanked :-) Living 25 mins from the nearest shop also discourages impulse buying to be sure. Nice going on the office - it is great to have a positive space to work in. My home office is messy and comfy for me. I get to work at home 2 days a week, so at work, I gave my nice window office to someone else and downsized to a cube. It's pathetic how bad teacher offices are - and how deluxe corporate offices etc are. Where are your priorities people!?
Mia--I can just imagine your mom doing that! Ha!!
Sue--welcome to the blog! Yeah, the walls are actually stark white, but now I am thinking that once I have been there awhile I could sneak in a more lively hue for the walls. Maybe Mia has some paint her mom didn't use! The grocery shopping is done by Aunt Betty, who lives with us (and loves me!)
Country Mouse, Welcome! You pegged it when you said that shopping is an intrusion on your weeding time. Don't people know this is the weeding season? We can't be out buying presents and dresses for parties, etc. We are waging war here in northern CA!!! ;-)
All: "Her garden;his weeds". I better get to work! EE
Hi Kelly,
It's funny that you mentioned your fence being repaired. We had a really windy storm come through recently and Cody & Kaylee were worried about your backyard fence falling down.
Oh yeah and I love the whole idea of less shopping and LESS STUFF. I couldn't do the compact thing but less is good.
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